From Dating Disaster to Dating Master by Midnite Love

Author:Midnite Love [Love, Midnite]
Language: eng
Format: mobi
Tags: Relationships, Love & Romance, Parenting & Relationships, Motivational, Fitness & Dieting, One Hour (33-43 Pages), Health, Self-Help, Health; Fitness & Dieting
Amazon: B005C5GW50
Publisher: Love Den Media Publishing
Published: 2011-07-10T04:00:00+00:00

Chapter four I Spy With A Watchful Eye

Have you ever been in relationship with someone who was verbally or emotionally abusive? What about someone who was physically abusive? How about the person that seemed like they had it all together in the beginning, but turned out to be a loser later on? It could be a person who refuses to hold a job or a person who is basically a slob or spend thrift. These are just a few examples of the personality traits that can ruin a relationship.

In this chapter you will learn how to “spy with a watchful eye." You will learn how to spot the behaviors and habits of toxic people early on in the game before they become real problems or, even worse before you seriously fall for them. Please be aware that there are some master game players out there. And they will stop at nothing to put their best foot forward. They will do everything in their power to show that side of them that everyone loves. However even with that being said a person will almost always give away clues or shall we say potential red flags. Sometimes people don't try to hide who they really are. Sometimes they will tell you straight out in which case you need to listen. The problem is that most people who have already started to fall in love are so blinded by the "feeling" or the "high" that they totally overlooked shortcomings that needed to be addressed off the bat. You can't say that you were fooled if a person has told you about themselves from the beginning. The same goes with their actions. YES actions do speak louder than words. Actually they SCREAM louder than words.

One of the questions that I am frequently asked is how to spot a liar. We all know there are some people out there that will lie if you simply ask them the time of day. I don't know of anyone alive who hasn't at some time or another had to deal with a liar in a relationship. I'm not saying that everyone is perfectly honest 100% of the time. I'm speaking on the people who will lie just to get a date. And will continue to lie to live that lie just to maintain a relationship.

I will say this; if you catch someone you are dating in a lie at least once. Chances are they will lie again. What you need to be paying attention is how often they lie, and what they are lying about. Is it simple stuff like "yeah I dropped off your dry cleaning" when they really didn't? They didn't have the time and was planning on doing it later. And of course they didn't want you mad at them so they lied. Now don't think I'm gonna let this slide it because wasn't a doozie. The point is they still lied. You will need to keep your eyes peeled. This person could already be exhibiting signs of not following through and making excuses.

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